Monday 26 January 2009

please tell me....

what makes you cry? (generally)

when last did you cry?

what consoles you?

what is your personal opinion about crying?

what do you think about pornography? (yes random, i know, but hey... i am asking)

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hmm --
What makes me cry? - Depends, mainly people related tho..
Last cry - May 2007
Consoles me? - Good music, plus a listening ear to rant to...
Personal opinion on crying - can be therapeutic, but shouldn't be overdone... Cry to relieve the tension but develop a plan to rectify the underlying issues ASAP...
Pornography - demeans the subjects -- but its really alluring......unfortunately...

Aaron Oteze said...

any heart wrenching occurrence (in fiction or true life). wet my cheeks a little on Saturday watching slum dog. The eyes needs the exercise sometimes.

porn?...hmmm its em well, a genre of movies (or magazines) with horrible story lines but plenty of appeal to the public...wonder why? Think I ought to do some research and find that one out :)

chinazo said...

1. dunno things one least expect but trust me nobody ever sees me.
2. cant even remember cos of very proud tear ducts.
3.sleep.
4.ithink its necessary atimes dats if u can let it out u know
5. hmmm... pornography its some intresting stuff u know.

Sally said...

danny - people related... pray tell all...

aaron - the eyes need exercise sometimes. so cry for no good reason? just because....

chinazo - things one least expects... like?

Anonymous said...

@Sally -- meant that some times, listening to people amd the issues brings tears to my eyes....Not the loud bawling type of crying but a measured moistness in the eyes...lol..

Tiyan said...

I cry when i feel like a failure, most times i am over reacting. Last cried yesterday! console me with chocolate, delicious food, and money, lol. Everyone needs a good cry, I always feel better afterwards. What is Pornography please...lol

doug said...

I don't cry anymore. Haven't cried in a very long time. Can't remember if I resolved not to, but it actually feels like there are no more tears in my eyes. I just can't get any out, so sometimes I try to pretend...much good that does me.


I last cried sometime in 1998. I had been wrongly accused of something really painful by someone I cared a lot about (not a girl).


Like I said, I don't cry, so I don't think that question applies.


Pornography is a vice, FULL STOP. If for nothing else one should avoid it for the effect it has on the way we view women. I'm talking from the point of view of a man 'cos we're the major consumers. It messes up your mind. Best to avoid it. It's hard, but if you never fall for the falsehood that it's ok, then at least you'll never overindulge which will keep you closer to freedom when you have formed your resolve.

doug said...

Oh I missed the part about my personal opinion about crying. It depends on why you're crying. If it's 'cos of something like a loss or a break-up or something of the sort then my philosophy is rather silly. I feel like tears give the enemy some gratification. So I'm against crying there. Its silly I know but I think it serves me well.

CaramelD said...

1. Deep sadness and maybe a feeling that I can't change the situation, that usually results in tears.

2. Mid January

3. A good friend listening and giving me advice and a new point of view.

4. Some times it helps other times it just ruins your face for no reason.

5. I remember when I first watched porn. I couldn't eat meat for the next week. I can get why men get hooked, it's because the visual stimulation is served on a plate and you don't have to think about, but for me my senses were bombarded! It's all a bit too much and soooooo fake! I sat stick to the REAL thing with someone that matters!